Leaving Home with Half a Fridge is a memoir by Aarathi Menon. I am yet to read it, but I know that the book is
about how the writer survived her divorce. One of my friends who recently
read the book got deeply sensitive about it (she is yet to find her prince
charming). She decided to meet me, who is another havoc in these things. The
dialogue reached topics like how trivial things result in ceasing a beautiful
relationship. It’s the season of celebrity split ups too, hence the topic
seemed sensible for the day.
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I relived
my memories on relationships, which definitely include silly infatuations and
took time to analyze why and how I decided choices, even to opt for one or to
get rid of one. I definitely agree that the matter of relationship can never be
generalized and it differs from one to another. Nobody can take a final call on
it, nor can decide if one was wrong or right in taking any decisions. It
heavily depends up on the conditioning, social systems, awareness and beliefs
on gender and many more such innumerable factors, and I would not risk to stomp
on it.
Of any
kind, break ups of sincere relationships do create a mess in life. They teach
us several things, either to live better or die worse. The whole dialogue and
time spent on thinking about these proved worthless for me. It is not because I
do no value these. But, it is because I’m not clear on the chemistry
and mindset involved in relationships. I myself has changed its course several times in my life, and has learned a new lesson each time. Anyways, mind has
the liberty to become worthless once in a while and today was that day!
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